Top 4 Things Women Want The Most From A Guy Pt. 1

 1. Someone who will listen. If location is one of the biggest reasons for many successful businesses, then listening is an essential in relationships. Women like to be heard and more importantly they want to be understood. All of the women that I cam across wanted says that a good listener is the #1 quality they look for in a mate.

  During conversation it’s important to do the following to show a woman that you’re listening:

        -     Nod when she speaks 
       -     Give your opinion (only if necessary)

  By doing what’s described above, you’re showing that you’re actively engaged in the conversation.

 Here’s what you shouldn’t do:           

2.  Someone who shows respect. Something that’s very important to a woman. If you don’t believe me just ask Aretha Franklin….she made a whole song about it. Women love when you show some respect to her and the people that you’re around. This is especially true when you’re on a first date or you’re beginning a new relationship with them. So be courteous to everyone, because it can go along way with a woman.

3.  Someone with a good personality. When choosing a mate, a lot of women prefer personality over looks. That’s why you should definitely show her how great of a guy you are even if you’re viewed by many women as an attractive man.

 4. Someone who's confident. There’s a thin line between confidence and cockiness. Some guys may not know, while others just don’t care. But if you’re looking to get or keep a woman, you should understand the difference.

Top 4 Things Women Want The Most From A Guy Pt. 2 

1. Someone with a clean appearance. Women love a man who cares about his appearance and know how to maintain good hygiene. Keep your nails short, hair neat, shoes clean, etc. Women do look at every detail. So if you’re thinking that you have a nice clean outfit on but your nails are dirty, then you can lose many points for that in her book. Give a lot of consideration to your physical image.

2. Someone who can show flattery. Compliment her on her eyes, hair, smile, personality, etc. Tell her how beautiful she looks. This is how you show flattery. Make her feel noticed and important. She will definitely appreciate it.

3. Someone who’s intelligent. I don’t think I need to explain to you guys how intelligence is important to a woman. You don’t have to be a modern day Albert Einstein, but you should be able to have an intellectual conversation with her. Being a good decision maker and street smart is also a plus.

4. Someone who’s romantic. Set up a candlelit dinner, set up a nice warm bubble bath with rose peddles, etc. Be creative. Your partner will appreciate your creativity.

 

Ladies - Do You Believe All Men Are The Same?

Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a few jerks. However it's important to know that all men will not treat you bad. Therefore, it's not fair to put all guys into one bad category.

1. Learn to trust the next guy. If in your last relationship you've been lied to or cheated on, you may put up a wall to guard your heart. But instead of putting up a wall, you should open up to the guy. Tell him that though it's going to take some time, you're willing to trust him. Give a person 100 percent trust and let them know that it's up to them do decide whether they want to keep it or lose it.

2. Make room for love. Don't make excuses like "I have to focus a lot of my time on work" or "there are just a lot of things going on in my life right now". If you decide to pursue a relationship with someone, give him the same amount of time and attention that you think you deserve to get. By coming up with excuses...you're putting up barriers. And you'll never know how great a guy will be until you give him a chance.

When you go through many bad relationships, you have to understand that it's only going to bring you one step closer to finding that special guy. So once you find him, it's going to make you appreciate the relationship more. Don't give up now on finding true happiness. Keep your hopes high, your heart open, and keep in mind that all men are different.